by John Godinez | Mask wearing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
You’ve divorced and ironed out a custody agreement. Before the ink has dried, your ex has remarried. The person they married has decided that you are the Anti-Christ, and their job is to erase and punish you and your children. They have a personality disorder just...
by John Godinez | Mask wearing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
‘Tis the season for Narcissistic family members, exes, and frenemies to wreak havoc on the holidays. Why do narcissists intentionally ruin the holidays? So many reasons! Remember, you are dealing with someone who has the emotional capacity of an 18- month-old on a...
by John Godinez | Mask wearing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
People ask me all the time how I know when someone has shown me who they really are. Abusers wear masks all the time. The overt ones are easier to spot; they proclaim loudly who they really are through their verifiable lies and cruel actions. They essentially “tell”...
by John Godinez | Isolation, Love bombing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
Communal narcissists are ones who use religious teachings to gather people to them and, once the people have been gathered, to abuse the living crap out of them, even to the point of death. It makes no sense, to a sane person, that the narcissist wants their followers...
by John Godinez | Devalue, Discard, Gaslighting
All families have problems like ours! No marriage is happy! The rest of the family thinks YOU are crazy! You’re mother/father is a whore/asshole/bastard/bitch! Therapy is for losers! Only crazy people go to therapy! No child of mine will be in therapy! You don’t need...
