by John Godinez | Devalue, Discard, Gaslighting
All families have problems like ours! No marriage is happy! The rest of the family thinks YOU are crazy! You’re mother/father is a whore/asshole/bastard/bitch! Therapy is for losers! Only crazy people go to therapy! No child of mine will be in therapy! You don’t need...
by Kris Godinez | Devalue, Discard, Hoover, Isolation
Well, yes. Unfortunately. When we come out of an abusive romantic relationship, or we finally go no contact with our abusive parents, or we leave that dream job because we were being bullied and our ideas stolen, the holiday season (which is also the Hoover season)...
by Kris Godinez | Devalue, Discard
Oh June! A beautiful month that is traditionally the marriage month. I hate to say it, but, red flags are usually flying long before the ink on the marriage license is dry. I cannot tell you the number of horror stories where the love bombing stopped immediately after...
