by John Godinez | Growth, Self-Care
“Why do I procrastinate so much? What is wrong with me?” That is a question that I get asked a lot. Hello, and welcome to yet another trauma response we all have coming out of abusive relationships. Short answer? Procrastinating is a maladaptive way of having control....
by John Godinez | Isolation, Love bombing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
Communal narcissists are ones who use religious teachings to gather people to them and, once the people have been gathered, to abuse the living crap out of them, even to the point of death. It makes no sense, to a sane person, that the narcissist wants their followers...
by John Godinez | Devalue, Discard, Gaslighting
All families have problems like ours! No marriage is happy! The rest of the family thinks YOU are crazy! You’re mother/father is a whore/asshole/bastard/bitch! Therapy is for losers! Only crazy people go to therapy! No child of mine will be in therapy! You don’t need...
by John Godinez | Isolation, Mask wearing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
Mass family killings happen every 3.5 weeks. These killings have happened every 3.5 weeks for the last TWENTY YEARS! That is almost 300 mass family killings, and that isn’t the number of casualties; that is the number of mass family killing events. The number one and...
by John Godinez | Gaslighting, Isolation, Mask wearing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
Finally! Merriam Webster’s word of the year is GASLIGHTING! The education is WORKING! Keep sharing your survival stories! Keep educating people on the red flags! Keep calling out the abusers and the abusive behaviors. Abusers and abusive behavior need to be made...
