by Kris Godinez | Gaslighting, Podcast
We’ve all been there, and done that, dealing with a disordered corporation that has the office bully, cliques, screamers, and schemers. No one ever teaches us what to look out for when we go to interview for a job or why it is important to read not just employee...
by John Godinez | Devalue, Discard, Gaslighting
All families have problems like ours! No marriage is happy! The rest of the family thinks YOU are crazy! You’re mother/father is a whore/asshole/bastard/bitch! Therapy is for losers! Only crazy people go to therapy! No child of mine will be in therapy! You don’t need...
by John Godinez | Gaslighting, Isolation, Mask wearing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
Finally! Merriam Webster’s word of the year is GASLIGHTING! The education is WORKING! Keep sharing your survival stories! Keep educating people on the red flags! Keep calling out the abusers and the abusive behaviors. Abusers and abusive behavior need to be made...
by John Godinez | Gaslighting, Love bombing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
Ah, November! The air is crisp, the holidays are coming up and you are a bundle of anxiety over how to keep your sanity with your family or ex, or both. Abusers are notorious for ruining the holidays! It doesn’t matter what holiday. Thanksgiving? They’ll ruin it!...
by John Godinez | Gaslighting, Love bombing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
Most people think the scariest thing about October is Halloween. In reality October is scary because it is the beginning of the hoover season. Between now and right after Valentine’s Day is when the emotional vampires attempt to feed. Abusers need constant...
by Kris Godinez | Gaslighting
One thing abusers want more than anything else in the world is control. The more pathological they are, i.e., NPD, ASPD, and Machiavellian or Dark Triad, the more they stalk, the more they smear, and the more they seek control over the target. They want to control the...