by Kris Godinez | Growth, Love bombing, Self-Care
I often get asked, “What is love, really?” The reason I get asked that is because abusers, narcissists, dark triads, antisocial personality disordered and malignant borderline personality disordered, throw that word “love” around. However, do they really know or...
by Kris Godinez | Gaslighting, Mask wearing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
If you have ever seen an abuser, a narcissist, or a dark triad not get their way, you will more than likely have seen them rage. A narcissistic rage is a breathtaking sight to behold and by that, I mean it can be downright terrifying if you have never seen one before...
by Kris Godinez | Growth, Self-Care
“Why do I procrastinate so much? What is wrong with me?” That is a question that I get asked a lot. Hello, and welcome to yet another trauma response we all have coming out of abusive relationships. Short answer? Procrastinating is a maladaptive way of having control....
by Kris Godinez | Podcast
The court system is a whole culture unto itself! It has its own language and customs and procedures, and if you do not understand how the system works, that could hurt you in your divorce case. Kris breaks down what questions to ask when hiring an attorney all the way...
by Kris Godinez | Podcast
Have you ever had your parent’s voice come flying out of your mouth? Nine times out of ten that happened when you were stressed out, and it was a knee-jerk reaction. What can you do when that happens? Are you aware of all of the bad parenting that your dysfunctional...