by John Godinez | Mask wearing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
You’ve divorced and ironed out a custody agreement. Before the ink has dried, your ex has remarried. The person they married has decided that you are the Anti-Christ, and their job is to erase and punish you and your children. They have a personality disorder just...
by John Godinez | Mask wearing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
‘Tis the season for Narcissistic family members, exes, and frenemies to wreak havoc on the holidays. Why do narcissists intentionally ruin the holidays? So many reasons! Remember, you are dealing with someone who has the emotional capacity of an 18- month-old on a...
by John Godinez | Mask wearing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
People ask me all the time how I know when someone has shown me who they really are. Abusers wear masks all the time. The overt ones are easier to spot; they proclaim loudly who they really are through their verifiable lies and cruel actions. They essentially “tell”...
by Kris Godinez | Growth, Love bombing, Self-Care
I often get asked, “What is love, really?” The reason I get asked that is because abusers, narcissists, dark triads, antisocial personality disordered and malignant borderline personality disordered, throw that word “love” around. However, do they really know or...
by Kris Godinez | Podcast
For many of us that came out of families of origin that were toxic, we truly do not know what healthy looks like. So what behaviors are healthy? What should we be looking for in family, friends, partners, or even co-workers? What does healthy actually look like? In...
