by John Godinez | Mask wearing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
People ask me all the time how I know when someone has shown me who they really are. Abusers wear masks all the time. The overt ones are easier to spot; they proclaim loudly who they really are through their verifiable lies and cruel actions. They essentially “tell”...
by Kris Godinez | Growth, Love bombing, Self-Care
I often get asked, “What is love, really?” The reason I get asked that is because abusers, narcissists, dark triads, antisocial personality disordered and malignant borderline personality disordered, throw that word “love” around. However, do they really know or...
by Kris Godinez | Podcast
Have you ever wondered why the other parent did not protect you? Have you wondered why people just allow abuse to occur? What gets in the way of people acting to protect? These and many more questions will be answered in this week’s episode of We Need To Talk...
by Kris Godinez | Podcast
Have you ever wondered why some people just cannot make a decision without asking everyone and anyone? What causes a person not to trust their own judgment? Have you ever met someone who just wanted to be taken care of to the point of clinginess? That would be someone...
by Kris Godinez | Podcast
When a breakup with an abuser happens, have you ever wondered why they suddenly go on a rampage trying to discredit their former target of abuse? What does an abuser get out of such egregious behavior? Why do people believe them? What is a flying monkey anyway? These...
